It's generally a good barometer of what to post or not, and it makes you less creepy/slutty/weird-seeming to potential new guys."—Being active on social media is great, but not if you're ignoring actual people and conversations.
"Don't Like someone's photo on Instagram if you haven't returned their text message," one staffer laments. —If you're still friends with exes/people you've dated, cease or at least scale back on Liking/commenting on their photos once either of you are dating someone new.
Mystery, of any kind and for any reason, is unbelievably energizing, and it’s yours for the taking.
phone conversation between a coworker and her long-distance boyfriend that had too many expletives to recount here.
Another guy—a very hot, dangerous-in-a-way-that-I-like guy—used his Facebook page to complain about his bills, his co-workers, his commute, and other banal life-slights, which made him into a boring-in-a-way-that-I-hate guy.
things: throwing balls, making deals, building something, even brooding quietly. Just having a Facebook account implies that you are wasting your remaining youth warming your genitals with a laptop and working out the details of a status update like a nail-biting middle schooler.
Yes, some women will be suspicious of guys, especially under-35s, who are off the social-media grid.
The good news is that Twitter and Instagram don’t pose the same potential threat as Facebook.
When You're Single:—Even if you're out there having the time of your life, that doesn't mean your family/boss/ex/the world needs to see you riding a mechanical bull in a bikini while holding a margarita.
"I have a rule in social media," says one staffer, "If you don't want your boss to see it, don't post it.
And ever notice how it's always the guys who are like "Facebook = Drama" who are the biggest transgressors?
If you Like the Oops-How-Did-My-Cleavage-Get-There? selfie of some girl you used to hook up with and your girlfriend sees it and gets upset, whose fault is that?
Both include only what you choose and make a better case for who you are and want to be.